How often you say "I Love U" to yr dear?

T.Ryousuke SG

This is a magic word if it’s not use too often, but it become unless when you say it too often, issit true?

dork3d SG

True... Being together and knowing when to say "I love you" is very essential...

Not just because it's your anniversary or his/her birthday or Valentine's Day, you have to say...

When you say it, you mean it from the bottom of your heart and let his/her feel the truth from the statement...

T.Ryousuke SG

The problem for me is that I can do anything for her but in the end I din say that I love her, but she is been very patient with me. Is not that I wanna test her, but sometime guy need to say it out cos gal need this kind of caring word to keep the love on going. And lately I keep mention about my ex and that made her unhappy, yet she din show anger directly at me until I slowly recall back what she had said and realise those r angry words. I took a long time to understand her words. So do you girls see ppl like me will say out directly infront of me if I say something wrong?

dork3d SG

Saying "I love you" isn't a solution or remedy... Especially in some scenarios that things went wrong and you've done something wrong...

Maybe in this context, you might need do something really really touching to her and slowly bring the words to your mouth and say it to her...

Time can be an essence but time can also be a killer... She might be patient but patience might run out...

If you really treasure her, remember one thing that man always like to do: compare her with your ex... Don't do that... Since you're with her now, give her the trust and love that she deserves...

T.Ryousuke SG

Din compare her with ex but was comlianing about the past unhappiness. Anyway this ex thing show that I got lot to learn in love.

dork3d SG

Actually you might not have sensed it, but it's an indirect comparison...

Even me's married with my lovely wife, after having two Mini Mes, me also have to admit me also learning how to love her more every single day...

For a girl to put down her love on you isn't easy, so for us guys what we could do the least is to love them more than they love us, not only every single day that we are together...

T.Ryousuke SG

Thanks dork3d for yr advise, sometime I though wat I did was enuff to show my love to her. Well, must polish my antenna cos getting abit rustly. Girl really crack my head to understand wat they mean.

dork3d SG

Maybe for a start, get to know what she really likes and hate, and try to think what she really thinks, communicate with her... Act on her likes and dislikes and give some surprises once in a while when she least expects it... For example, if you can remember when was the date that both of you were together as an item, spring her a small surprise maybe a dinner plus a movie and walk her home, at her doorsteps, kiss her and tell her "I love you"... Wink

T.Ryousuke SG

I did most of the thing except the last magic words! and a flower!

dork3d SG

Wish you the best and may your love be everlasting... Wink

T.Ryousuke SG

Need to try harder next round, cos she really deserve the best from me.

yihao93 SG

the journey of love is not easy indeed.... Sad

Yunhaier SG

Generally, humans can't really handle two things:

I) Truth

II) Power

If you know something like above will happen eventually, I suggest you avoid getting yourself into such plight in the future. As a viable alternative, you could talk to a friend instead. Idea

Cheers

ditzy SG

That line is so passe man. Laughing

T.Ryousuke SG

Is my mistake tho, least I know how much she cares about me.

SherLady SG

not often if i sae it often i dun think i mean it.

actions speaks louder than words =)

Yunhaier SG

I think it's fundamentally flawed to reckon that 'because I have spoken about my ex and she reacted; it probably means that she cares/loves you.' This is usually the same line of argument given by possessive mates, claiming that that's love for them, thus the behaviour.

Nevertheless, I still hope for all the best in your current relationship. You had a rough one previously and let's hope things would be better now.

P.S: Our affections are FOC. It is never too much to show how much we appreciate people we love. In fact, we are often too inhibited emotionally. Idea

Cheers

T.Ryousuke SG

Ya, it's going fine and thanks for the advise, I am trying to learn how to handle a r/s with care and love.

Ah Cek SG

true, these 3 magic words are just like shang fang bao jian - can only use once - during ROM Laughing

T.Ryousuke SG

Wah shang fang bao jian , I got mia shi jin pai hor.